tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-833411569297842114.post8436436673193014706..comments2024-02-19T00:18:30.051-08:00Comments on Suara Hati Ayahku: If you were in my shoes, what would you do?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-833411569297842114.post-67912233465288395302013-01-14T00:38:11.995-08:002013-01-14T00:38:11.995-08:00Q1) to publish successfully, a researcher needs to...Q1) to publish successfully, a researcher needs to find his niche. what's ur niche? what differentiates ur research from others? if u're doing CBL, how can u contribute to the domain of knowledge, specifically? highlighting ur niche is a way to fortify ur contribution in shaa Allah. consequently, making ur paper more compelling to be published in high impact journals.<br /><br />Q2) do whatever u can to please ur mom as long as it does not defy islam. observe the superlative *sebaik-baiknya* in the quranic excerpt below. be kind with ur words with her. it is said that the *redha* of Allah swt follows closely to that of one's mother.<br /><br />17:23 Dan Tuhanmu telah memerintahkan supaya kamu jangan menyembah selain Dia dan hendaklah kamu berbuat baik pada ibu bapakmu dengan *sebaik-baiknya*. Jika salah seorang di antara keduanya atau kedua-duanya sampai berumur lanjut dalam pemeliharaanmu, maka sekali-kali janganlah kamu mengatakan kepada keduanya perkataan "ah" dan janganlah kamu membentak mereka dan ucapkanlah kepada mereka perkataan yang mulia.<br /><br />Q3) ask your daughter to pray istiharah regarding her choice and urge her to trust the guidance given by Allah swt.<br /><br />architecture is a glamorous vocation when u're at the top but it requires a LOT of sacrifice. i had many friends who were once architects. if she's okay with the idea of sleeping at the studio in keeping up with the insane project deadline, then it's okay. she may have to juggle between her marriage life and work almost all the time as well.<br /><br />your daughter is old enough to make her own decision. u can give ur counsel but she has to decide, eventually. the best advice is asking her to act in accordance with the petunjuk from Allah swt. to do that, istiharah is key. <br /><br />wallahualam.pikir koolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07464811134983985492noreply@blogger.com