Salam.
In our home there are two main players called ytthe man and the woman. You call her WIFE and you the husband.
In Islam, when we got married, we are married with the words of Allah. Amanah. We take responsibility to treat her well come snow, rain or tsunami.
But alas ..we tend to treat our wife very well in the early stages of the married life. Why is that so?
The answer is ' we tend to take things for granted'. Everything is so easy. If she cooks, you never say 'so nice your mee hoon'. TQ mak dia.
2) See the words Mak Dia. THeir mother. I say that because she used 'Abah dia' 10001 times a day. Gone were the words like 'sayang'; intan; baiduri; manja and many sexy words that tie both of you together. Why? Taking things for granted.
3) If you have a beautiful wife, by taking her for granted, it means that u can get another wife much beautiful as the first one called Mak Dia. Alas.. history og=f man kind have shown ... no man can get the best wife as the first one. You can ask Dato' K; Dato S' and many more. The neasrest is .. they regret and they missed their children all boys and all girls. Some of them was blessed with clever set of children going to Harvard, Oxford and UTHM
Laugh.
with new wife ..they got stupid set of children who can't differente between handset with a hammer. See?
Pity that kind of man huh?
4) My old dad called ..padan muka dia. He deserved that right?
So please appreciate your wife. Appreciate her loyal service 24/7 for the last 30 or 45 years on the roads. If she lost her teeth on the way, buy her a new set then. Which set you want dear? Hindi type or Bangla one?
laugh.
Wallahu aklam. Diam diam I say I '..ove so much lah'. Sounds funny to say that to a 50 year plus lady lah.
Salam.
I have a cook at home. I called her WIFE. He..he.. it is so simple than mathematics and calculus. Laugh.
She is my 30 years cook. She cook all the time. When she hears my car parking at the garage , she starts to busy herself in the kitchen. She will withdraw all the fishes, crabs, sotongs, chikkens, ducks, fishes and many more from the 3000rm freezer. Of course we have lots of vegetables called sawi and kangkong. Sorry I don;t know the english words for sawi and kang kong. The nearest I get is KING KONG which is a big Gorilla. Laugh.
Its good to laugh at this hour of the day. 0840 am.
2) I love my cook very much because of 2 reasons:
Firstly I can invite many friends malaysians and foreigners to my home
Secondly .. I can use Ramadhan ( fasting month ) as a point to invite as many foreign students to open their fastings at my home. According to a hadith by Prophet Muhammad s.a.w . if we treat the fasting man some food, all the rewards come to us. Ameen.
3) If we don't have a good cook ..then the first thing you have to do is u must be the alternatife cook. What say you?
He..he.. pity you my friend.
According to my late grand dads and mums .. the best cook is the strongest bond ( tie) we can have in our married life. If you gop out station, u will miss her cooking. So you come back so often to enjoy her special cooking.
I can't complain much about that statement because in my kampung I can see many couples divorcing each other including the wok i.e., kuali or cooker.
Why? the johor men like to mengetehj so much . even until the early hours of the day. In the process they got hooked to a siamese cook or an indonesian 20 year old cook who prepares him AIR KOPI TONGKAT ALI. She smiles much wider with her nice set of teeth as compared to their spouses at home where their teeth have gone missing for many years.
In other words , the outside field looks greener than the spouse at home. As a result they bercerai/ divorce // why? cooking, cook, restaurants, cafeteria and many coffee shops including TOngkat Ali, Musa, Kassim .. .Misai Kuching, Misai Harimau They have many answers why divorce rate is picking up so high in the statistics columns in the newspapers.
Think about it?
Love your cook OK. Its ok .. if she doesn;t look like Princess Diana of Wales. Imagine you have one in the middle of the night when all light is put off. Laugh.
He..he..
Wallahu aklam.
Salam.
We all eat every day. We eat because we need sources of energy to move, to study, and many more activities.
But it is cheaper to cook one's food like mee-hoon goreng for breakfast. It consists of a packet of mee-hoon, onions, chillies, garlic, vegetables called sawi (malay vege) and soya sauce.
Put the onions and fry it as long as you like (but don't let it catch fire).
Once it turns a bit brownish , put the small portions of chicken and start to fry.
Add some ginger, sauce, salt .. if u like example pepper
Once it all looks ok .. put the mee hoon in the kauli.
Dig into the mee hoon and turn the mixture (mee hoon plus all the earlier ingrediaents)
Do that about 10 minutes until ur nose start to water
It means that the food is ready to be served
2) Why we cook? I think our cooking is the best food in the whole world. It saves you tons of money. I still could not take why clever people like professors always queue to a shop .. and the cook is just a drop out. It means that our food is cooked by a failed student. Is that sounds very weird? No wonder many professors feel all kind of illnesses especially stomach cancer, ulser, colon cancer and many more ailments. You name it .. it all comes from us eating so much from the street corner stalls. Pity our stomach?
He..he..
At home we can modify our cooking as much as we like. We can put =crabs instead of chicken. If the food doesn;t taste good , it is Ok .. I think .. we are the one who is finishing it up. Else pass that food to our neighbours at 1800 hours after the office hours. Sure they appreciate the crab mee-hoon.
Try please. It wil do you many wonders.
Good family is good cooking at home called our kitchen.
He..he..
wallahu aklam.