Suara Hati Ayahku

Salam

Solat terawih 20 rakaat atau 8  rakaat.
Benda ni ada musim ramadhan sahaja.
Bulan bulan lain tak akan terdengar solat terawih dibangunkan secara jamaah atau pun berseorangan.

Kalau diadakan orang akan cop kita ..gila.
He..he..he..

Fadhilat  terawih?  Allah ampunkan dosa kita.

2)  ada orang takzub dgn solat terawih.
Banyak tenaga dihabiskan.
Tetapi pi mai pi mai ..benda ni berstatus sunnat.
Buat untung.  Tak  buat ..rugi sakan lah kalian.

2)  Sejak kebelakangan ni..
Jika sesuatu masjid menganjurkan 8 rakaat terawih atau 20 rakaat
Maka dipertengahannya selepas 4 rakaat atau 10 rakaat
Mereka stop sekejap.
Mereka dihidangkan dgn tazkirah (lecture, kuliah)
Sesi nasihat.
Macam macam nasihat diberikan:
2.1  jauhi dari sifat boros, kedekut, amarah
2.2  jangan abaikan solat subuh berjamaah
2.3 ikutilah  pemerintah negara yg adil dan taqwa secara bertanggungjawab
2.4  kepentingan mandi janabah, mandi wajib
2.5 dan mcm mcm lagi.

3)  prestasi sy ..menghadhiri tazkirah terbahagi kpd 2 sahaja.
Kadang kadang
3.1  cemerlang  dan kadang kadang
3.2  kandas terus

Bila cemerlang? bila tukang tazkirah berstatus bagus, cerdik dan, bertimbang rasa.
Bagaimana tu?
Jika tazkirah 10 minit, beri 10 minit sudahlah.  Jgn bawak kami mendengar nasihat sampai 30 minit pulak.
Banyak lagi makanan kat rumah kita nak makan dengan sempurna.  Jika malam terlampau lewat..mata dah ngantuk..maka makan pun malas.  Nanti bnyk makanan terbuang pada keesokkannya.

Kalau ada tukang tazkirah yg bagus
Sy sambung solat terawih dgn hati yg gembira.
Bila sampai  di rumah, saya akan sampaikan pula pengajaran yg diperolehi dari tazkirah tadi kepada isteri dan anak anak di rumah.

Disebabkan saya manusia yg lemah


Prestasi saya kadang kadang tersangatlah  teruk
Jika tukang tazkirah menceritakan tentang
Zaman zaman dahulu kala.
Zaman keagungan kerajaan othmaniahlah
Atau pun mana mana kerajaan seperti BN
Sejak kebelakangan ini.

Zaman dahulu ...orgnya tak secomplicated mcm sekarang.
Kitab kitab bnyk menghidangkan cerita
Suami sahaja yg bekerja.  Suami serba sempurna.  Suami berbini ramai.

Sekarang  tidak.
Yesterday tidak.
Today tidak.
Tomorrow lagi lagi lah tidak.

Oleh itu cerita zaman dahulu ..rasa rasa
Tak ada sifat kerelevanan untuk digunakan pada zaman sekarang sebagai contoh yg terbaik.
Mengapa?

Sekarang ..musim puasa ada European Championship 2016.
Team Portugal main.
Team German pun main.
kitavpun main mainlah.  Syaitan iblis mainkan kami.
Banyak dugaan kami.

sekarang ..perempuan ramai bekerja.
ada bekerja sebagai profesor.
ada bekerja sebagai drebar bas Penang Rapid. Ada guru besar, guru kecil, guru biologi dan guru masak memasak.  Duit gaji depa dah ada.
Oleh itu ..masyarakat sudah berubah.

sekarang orang kita asyik angguk angguk sahaja dalam masjid.
apa yg tukang tazkirah cakapkan..semua dianggukkan secara ikhlas atau pun berlakon sahaja.  Kalau ditanya ..mu angguk gapo tu?

dia akan jawap ...entahlah.  tak ingatlah.

Dulu orang perempuan
respect suaminya.
Tak tengok syurga pun ..perempuan dulu respect suaminya.
MEREKA faham isu isu ketaatan kpd suami itu.  Depa tahu ..syurga di bawah tapak kaki suaminya.

Sekarang
tak semua wanita respect suaminya.
kenapa?
Bnyk sebab.
pertama ..suami tak handsome. Suami pendek. Suami bergigi berkarat. Badan suami busuk. Hisap rokok.
kedua ..suami tak ada kerja.
ketiga ..suami tak berapa pandai.  Kasi modal berniaga pun ..akhir akhirnya ..semua modal ..mampus.  why?  Tak pandailah.  Dulu belajar  ITM Bisnes Studies pun kena kick.

keempat? Suami malas.  Asyik tidur jer.


so ..tak boleh marahkanlah kaum perempuanlah.

kategori lain
isteri terlalu pandai.
silap sikit .. dia kasi keynote speaker punya speech
kpd suami yg ada pelajaran setakat SPM Gred 3 jer.

so macam mana?

oleh itu ..aku stop dengar tazkirah
dan pulang ke rumah.

jika ada taufiq dan hidayah
saya sambung lah solat terawih secara solo.
rakaat ke 5 , 6, 7 dan 8 sahaja.

lepas itu 1 rakaat Witir dan doa qunut.  Then stop dan terus makan durian belanda dan cendol mamak bersantan pekat dan cukuplah manis.

Alhmdulilah.
setakat itulah
prestasi saya.  Ok tak?

4)  ramai orang berkecil hati.
janganlah.  Betul tak saya cakapkan ini?
Kalau betul ..kenapa nak salahkan saya.
Kalau tak betul ..tegurkanlah.

5) Apa apa pun ..jgn bimbang.
Mengikut hadith
jika kita selesai semua puasa ini
30 hari berpuasa dgn baik dan sempurna ..
semua dosa kita  diampunkan oleh Allah Taala.

Bayangkan ..semua dosa kita
telah diampunkan.  Dijamin syurga.

tak best ke?
Janji Allah tetap benar.

6)  apa faedah  tazkirah?
Ramai manusia berubah.  Betul ke?
kalau berubah ..sudah tentu tak ada rasuah. Tak ada curi curi tulang di opis. Tak adalah penipuan.  Tak ada dengki dan bergaduh antara jiran jiran di Taman taman perumahanvatau di sekolah, politeknik atau universiti itu. Atau  guanor  adik, kakakku sekalian?


Sebelum diletakkan pen
kalaulah ..tak ada tazkirah ..bukankah senang
kita lengkapkan terus 8 rakaat atau 20 rakaat direct
terus menerus
?

Bukankah senang.
Bukankah simple, settled?


Maaf bnyk bnyk jika tak cantik penulisan ini.

Sekian.  Fikirkan lah ..apa kah mesej yg saya cuba nak sampaikan ini.
Wasallam.

Salam

As promised I am writing few points about this slide shows called power point.

New version is called Prezzi?

Never mind the name.  Lets get to the point.

Viva is an oral exam. At masters and Ph.D level.
The purpose is to exhibit one's work to the public and most importantly the examiners whether one has mastered his field of research.

2)   I  think if one is new,
they construct ppt in the hope  that few people will ask anything from the slides.
Some prsented so fast like David Copperfield.
some just read all the lines from the slides as slowly as a Kelantan turtle.
if he has 100 lines from 30 ppt  slides
by the time he finished reading all the slides

he has come to the end of the task.   Bravo.. 30 minutes is nowvover by this act of reading.

I think we are there not to hear his reading but ..we wanted to know more than that. To be fair, we provide some questions for you.  Are you ready?

During ph.d  presentation,
please expect some questions from the public.

If you can answer the questions
jolly good.

if you can't don't worry so much.  You wont die.  He he he.

But the main thing is ..your work has attracted some questions.
A boring presentation would produce 0  question.
may  be nobody understand his work at all.

if i went there, i would ask  some questions like the graphs.
what the units mean from the axis and of course the trends from the graph.  Why going up, why going down, why?

bear The torture from the public.  This wont last forever.
NObody has dropped dead from this ppt presentation.  BELIEVE ME!

3)  usually the ppt has 4 main areas covering your 1,2  or 3 year work.

3.1  your research questions
3.2  the method use
3.3 the results
3.4  discussion, future research n contribution.

So if you asked to give 40 minutes presentation, plan that the ppt can last that much time.

Dont prepare 2 slides.  This is a bad one.
dont put 1000 slides.  This too much.

I think about 15 to 20 slides would be good.

provide more time to answer question from the public.

This public could come from other staff, academicians from different departments etc etc.

#  dont worry you can do it.

If you got some journal writings
show that to the public Through 1  of the ending slides
At least it proved 1 important point
your work has been read, examined by others and they have allowed your work
to be published.

Congratulations.

How ever .. many writings did not guarantee you the passing of your phd  yet.
This will be determined later by the external examiners.

In summary
take care of your health.
You must not  lost your voice.

Viva time is to listen to your voice actually.

5)  if you are given 2 months to prepare your viva
spend some time looking at your references.

check some current trends about your research.
Check your results.
Understand the method used n  why?

if you said ..your findings is parallel to Green(2000)
you must prepare ..in what ways it was parallel.

Else if you said ..your result is quite different from the others
you must be ready to explain why.

just be prepared.

### you can forecast.  What next after this research?

In sum, I have the feeling you will pass.

he he he.

If you are very nervous about the date of the viva
Try putting yourselves 1 or 3 months ahead from that viva date.

smile and think nice about all the experiences you had gone
through all these 3 years of phd work.

Laugh at the time you created trouble with the workshop technician in Leeds or Manchester.
Laugh at the way your graphs were printed wrongly.
How angry you were
when your Sv  said ..you look so stupid my boy.

ha..ha..ha..


by doing so .,you have managed to destress yourself.

I think that's all  my  boy.

I had done it.
Your country men have done it

and now ..you can do it too.

Read some prayers b4 you take the stage
and all the best my son.

Your mummy and I ...will be there all along as you presented your work.

Go .. after that..  my boy.

Wasallam.

Salam

Good mother is a blessing.

Good wife is the best rezeqi.

Good children comes from those 2  big influential figures.

Without them we are no where.

Thats why good government spends lots of time, effort and money to
Take good care of girls, ladies and mothers.

In Islam we put  high respect on girls n ladies.

We separate the boys andvthe girls.

We protect them by all means.

2)  just go to any country

If vthe girls are good

Peace n harmony  comes.

3)  if one wanted to seek  a wife

Look at the mother.
Look at her sisters.

Their temparament  indicates  many things including peace n harmony.

4)  some girls can b good mothers.

Some cannot.

No matter how hard u  tried.

Why?

This comes from time, education, interaction both socially n  economically.

Lucky indeed to the ones having good lady by their side.

Ameen.