Suara Hati Ayahku

When u are a dad .. there is no such thing as 'Happy Dad's day'. why?

2) I count first = responsibility to raise my kids as a good muslim and professional well beings. I want them to be dai too ..spreading the work of dakwah all over the world like the sahabahs r.a. Remember .. the sahabah.. they left their homes in arab countries to china ..to spread islam. they die as a dai. Their grave is every where except their kampung/village. The reward of that is heaven .. where there are 7 rivers of different colour and water types . Wine, milk, honey, .. and many more. There in the heaven we will live happily ever after ( refer to the Holy Quraan). But to get that

3) ..u have to educate urself, ur family day and night through out your life. If you have girls, then it is not that easy to raise them islamically. raising children like the rest of the world is easy but ..u are accountable to what you do with them in akhirat. Your food must be halal all the time. Food becomes halal if we work in halal mode examples - teach well, sell honestly, work diligently etc etc and in the process of doing work ... do not miss any prayers. If we are a teacher but we pperformed poorly example not marking any books , papers etc etc ..then the pay we got at the end of the day is not halal ( reference: Ustaz Nik Aziz MB Kelantan). So you see ..it is not easy to get halal food from a halal earning even.

Thats it. Life as a dad is very tough ..my dear readers. There is a saying by Holy Prophet Muhamamd s.aw. " if u have three daughters and u raise them according to islam and u give them (marry them) to good muslims, mukmins then paradise is wajib on you. Why? raising a cattle is 10 times much easier rather than raising a daughter in islam at the later stage .. towards the end of the world."

Do you think it is easy my dear readers to celebrate Hari Bapa/ Father's Day?
Doa. wasallam. p/s next time i write more how u treat your wife.